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How Talking makes one feel good

If you or someone you know is going through a tough time, talking to someone might sound like a simplistic solution, but it is one of the best possible things you/they can do.

Sorting through your feelings

Talking out loud about what’s going on in your head and explaining it to someone else, even if you think it doesn’t make sense, helps you to clarify the things that are worrying you. Saying things out loud, often makes them less scary, and at least by having to sort through your feelings you know a bit more about you’re dealing with. Keeping things inside only lets them build up and get confusing.

Putting things in perspective

If you have been keeping things to yourself, a situation can seem way more overwhelming than it is. The person you tell might help you see the case in a new or different perspective.
Someone outside the situation will be able to be more objective about what’s going on and might have solutions you hadn’t thought of.

Releasing tension

You mightn’t even realize it, but carrying a worried head on your shoulders every day, full of pent-up emotions, creates a lot of physical stress too. You’d be amazed at what a release it can be to get things off your chest. Your muscles can relax a bit, and you can feel like a weight has been lifted. Feeling good physically makes you feel better mentally. It’s all connected, see?

Deciding who to talk to

Choosing who you want to talk to is an essential first step. You need to trust them, and to feel comfortable opening up to them. The possibilities include close friends (who might relate to what you’re going through) family members (who can sometimes give you great support), teachers or youth workers (who are often good listeners and trained to deal with loads of issues), or going to talk to a counsellor who’s outside the situation (sometimes the best plan).

Talking to someone outside the situation

One of the advantages of talking to someone like a counselor who’s “outside the situation” is they don’t know your friends or your family and don’t have opinions about how you should be living your life.
This means it can be easier to open up and tell them things you might not tell other people. You don’t have to worry about them being judgemental. What you say to them won’t leave the room, except for very particular situations where they fear for your safety or are legally obliged. Check out confidentiality for more information on this.

They also have experience dealing with loads of different problems and are pretty unshockable. If you have particular concerns, there are also counselors who specialize in specific issues.

Some of these specialty areas includes:-

mental health issues
addiction (drugs, alcohol, gambling)
sex and sexuality
family issues
eating disorders
pregnancy
family issues
money and housing worries
school and careers
abuse

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